Wife takes too long to orgasm

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Registered in Ireland: Do you know why this might be? Is it common? The bad news is that it is probably a natural part of ageing. The good news is that there are several things that you can do to help. After the age of about 40 the three main sex hormones become increasingly imbalanced, which can cause problems with sex and orgasm.

He has noticed that it takes him a really long time to reach orgasm during both oral and penetrative sex, if he even ejaculates at all. Plus, he now spends the bulk of his sexual experiences in his head stressing about whether or not he can physically reach climax. The Facts Delayed ejaculation can be caused by many different physical and mental health factors, says Seth Cohen, urologist and professor of urology at NYU Langone Health. The Mayo Clinic recommends that patients identify the nature of their delayed ejaculation in order to get to the root cause so the dysfunction can be addressed. Your friend should establish whether their delayed ejaculation has been lifelong or acquired.

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